….Thank you. ... Make that AM. I miss you every second! Try out a few of these strategies to see how she responds to them. Whether or not you live together, talking on the phone is a necessity for most couples. She is the one that left, and therefore she is the one that should crawl back on her own recognition that she made a mistake. In the meanwhile, don’t text and call too often since she’s the one who wanted space. If I were you, I would simply ask if she would want to be in a fully invested relationship with you or not. Why is it she never posts things about me or us unless I post about her or us or ask her when she is going to post something of me or us? Never be afraid to go the extra mile. Can you give me some advice? Good Night!”, ‘As much as I want to tell you right now how much I miss you; I am running short on time and words as I am too sleepy right now! Thank you. It will make her miss her and when she is missing you, she can find comfort in that thing that reminds her of you. Hi Saad, What do I do in this situation?… Give her something that will make her feel close to you when you are apart. After a time she said she will break up with that guy and propose me. During this whole time she has told me she has been hurt, she misses me and loves. but when i promise to be with someone til the end, i make sure i do. When people love each other, they make sure to show their love and appreciation, and they will do anything to fight for that relationship. I suggest you guys have an honest talk. I always told her I would work on things and had to talk her into coming back. It is 3 days She hasn’t given me an answer and all she talk about is why I broke up with her in the first place ? And you never know, just a sweet little reply on how much you miss them can become a game changer in your relationship. Not until I helped her get a house. He needs a fix. Eventually after the order was lifted 16 days to the hearing. Please reply me as soon as you can. What I mean to say is if you are missing someone and it’s a strong emotion you wish to embrace: please follow it! So I moved in with my girlfriend pending when I would get my own house. Your email address will not be published. So I matched with this amazing girl on tinder. Also, give her some space. “Idk how else to say this but I’m never going to be over you… And I know you may think Oh sure whatever, in 3 or so months I’ll be over you but I just won’t be. We then went on a date, it was great and I had instantly fallen for her, it was the last nail on the coffin for me, kept telling me how she usually takes a lot longer to go on date with guys she didn’t meet before. This article is going to tell you what it means when she says she needs space. She was in a relationship with a guy for 3years. Here are some ideas for how to respond to I miss you from someone you care about or aren't attracted to. I would hate to see you one day in the same shoes as her current boyfriend right now. Perhaps, she thinks you should know that already and not question it. My family love her, she love my family as I do to her. However, she told me that her past relationships were not so pleasant and she is trying to get to the bottom of why they didn’t go down as planned. What to Say Instead of “I Miss You Too!” Of course you do! After talking with my sister about the situation, she pointed out that its most likely because I would ignore her attempts to talking about taking the relationship to the next level (getting engaged, moving in, etc), and actually taking the relationship to the next level. She does’nt chat to me the same way we used to before she got the job. It may come out as being really needy. Post was not sent - check your email addresses! She was right, I would always attempt to avoid her conversations or “hints” to taking things further. I started taking these as signals that she is sort of into me. Usually, when a person loves someone, they want to work things out. She needs some time to sort things out….I was broken again…why…! At the same time, do not act like you do not care. Well she left and was pissed yelling at me. I was googling around and realized that I went on your website before, reading this exact same article, and that I send it to my boyfriend. I have a self system to help guide me. The lack of intimacy and her showing emotional support at this point is taking a toll on me, and I find myself always stressing about the uncertainty of our future. I feel like she has pretty much given hope on us now and then. I never heard a WORD from her in about 23-24 yrs. our communication is almost buried alive (maybe i’m exagerating) Try to go and find something that you can do alone so you can also remain in touch with yourself. A lack of respect and attention towards her will cause her to drift away from you. well, after all that happen, all i got to know and the previous distance, it’s obvious that i might look insecure all the time. hi Kate. That way you can also see if she starts missing you or she doesn’t care. But due to my constant spending of nights and day with her in her house. I would be willing to have more and be with her to the end but she doesn’t want that with anyone, or at least not me. when i followed her first time she said that she doesn’t follow me or accept my request either because if she follow me then my name can be seen on her mutual friends which will lead me to make friendship with her past friend. Neither do I intend to do the same in future!”, “Hi, I suppose you are messing with the wrong person!”, “Well, as much as I want to respond to this message, I am too eager to meet you in my dreams and express the same emotion. It was tough. Hi kate . We are going back to the counselor tomorrow finish the plan. We are together like a year now and we do call each other a lot but she is so different from what i see in real,I mean she looks tired to talk or show any emotions at all,so after sometime we strated calling I gave her more space and her own time, she do miss me and calls me back right away but stil not the enthusiastic,loving person i see in real.We sure have moments and here and there and then in no time she go mysteriously silent and that keeps me wondering is it me or something else. Or She is 21 and I’m 25. Weeks later, we start talking more and she invites me to some of her family events, which I go and have a good time without bringing any relationship stuff up. When you get a text that says, I miss you, this will be a logical reason for why you have been so distant lately. Thank you!! They say you don’t know what you have till it’s gone, well I agree. At the end, it’s your decision. what if she tries to rch me via calling or sms….. do i need to pick it… or ignore her. She is in instagram. I met this pretty young lady on social media. I felt so bad, because deep down, I knew I took potentially one of the best things that has ever happened to me for granted. My fiancé has always ran away from her feelings and problems or anytime it got tough. I have that effect on people! And I know how much I adore you as you understand me so well! As days went, I realised that she did not want to talk more on phone, instead she could say she is sleepy. I’m with a girl for the last 7 years. I’d appreciate it a lot. Not only is it healthy for you to get your alone time, it gives her a chance to miss you too. Hi, it’s really hard to tell if you can motivate him or not. She said she doesn’t miss me as much as I miss her anymore and feel as there are days where she just doesn’t want to see me and that I annoy her sometimes. Hey Kate, i’m super romantic, im sensitive, im poetic and sweet, i give her all the attentions she might need. You can even give her a nice memento box to store your letters and other small gifts in. From picnics to the movies to street fairs, there are so many wonderful outings that you can plan for her. It’s a major red flag when a girl brings up her ex on a first date or when they start chatting with you online. You do not want to neglect her. When you work hard to fill her life with plenty of great experiences and romantic memories, she will surely notice how much better, brighter, and more exciting her life is with you in it. How come you guys haven’t met each other yet? Sorry for my English grammar. My gf and I have been together for slightly more than 2 years. I have a very big crush on this girl in my secondary school and i love her so much I want to get married to her! Terrible. If you can’t think of any sweet notes to write her, check out our list of love letters. Cops involved and all. Just try to get along and move on, forget about what happened. Just let her know that you are busy but look forward to seeing her soon, otherwise she will think that you are blowing her off and she might end up moving on from you. 50.9k. Try your best to take advantage of your alone time. The text says: “I miss you.” It’s your ex. maybe to cheer up each other. It can be real pain if they keep on texting you and you are not really sure what to do about it! You might notice that as a result, she will start to miss you if she hasn’t already. you sure? She says she has seen everything she needed in a man in me. Once Monday, and twice Wednesday. She is been willing to move when ever I am (country wise) and I am willing to do the same. Thank you so much for your time, I need some advise really badly. She also has told me now that she met her ex and it was really awkward and she wouldn’t wanna meet him again. I know you focused on the negative towards the break, but I honestly don’t believe we never will be well together, yes I get that the two of us at times were explosive but love is hard it takes work, especially me.. We kiss, hold hands and all that, but I notice towards the end when I try to make a move and get intimate, she pulls away. A couple weeks later, she stopped saying it again. We got talking and we agreed to be just friends , as i didn’t really see the possibility of getting to meet her soon. I did start to kinda act weird at that point because I just wanted to tell her how I really felt about her, I gave her a few signals and she acted along. If you have been seeing each other every day for a few days, it is okay to take a break for a day or two so she has time to miss you. We would either hang out in his apartment or in my hotel room. Which was really nice and made me happy, but I still didn’t get any casual surprise postcards or letters as I had asked (I told him before that any holiday cards and/or packages don’t count). But I haven’t booked anything yet…. I’m not saying I’ll change cause that’s preposterous, I’m saying I’ve grown, had life altering realizations. I don’t know what to do. I told her what do you want from me you say we are just best friends and then you act like this if i talk to a girl she leaned over kissed me and said we are not just friends anymore. She has clearly stated the issues she has is beyond what I can do and she has to figure things out. If you really like someone, there is nothing better than them asking you how much you miss them. something a little more creative. She says she doesn’t believe me, and has been pushed away and hurt. I got married, had 2 kids, got divorced and have been living alone for about 8yrs. He told me that he wasn’t experienced with dating, so when I came home I confronted him with all of this and decided to visit him two months later so he could redeem himself. She’s giving me five years before we can marry because of her plan to further her studies. and of course, back to her help for me, she did it when no one else would. I loved this girl with all my heart but she wanted to split. So my girlfriend and I have been together for a little over 10 months now. But she still want me to hold on this and ask me to work on the issue with her. not even an opinion… Should i carry on this relationship or not? So my question to you is, should I keep trying at this point? She drove home. If she really loves you, she will start missing you and wondering where you are and what you’re doing. I don’t know exactly how she truly feels about me inside. When you show her a good time, she will keep missing you and she will always look forward to the next time that you two can spend time together. It’s hard to tell. I trusted her but after a month i accidentally found her using insta so i called her and talked to her about it. They deleted the chat with 2 boys i thought. I haven’t been in love for ten years now, but girls have been coming my way. I’m really not sure what I should do. Also my other question is the other day I called my girlfriend, it was a super short 10 min call because I needed to go do something and I called her and asked her how her day was and if anything fun or exciting happened at school today and she answered those questions, and then we talked about other things but not one time in that 10 min FaceTime call did she ever say how my day was or any of that not once or even close to that topic, I don’t ever remember the last time she has ever asked me how my day was or any of that, she use to do it a long time ago but not anymore like to me for my gf to do that feels like she doesn’t give a ….. about my day or how it was and also feels like she doesn’t care about me enough. Interesting Q&A. But when i checked the notifications i became sure that she had used insta the when i asked her about it she again lied and that she had just started instagram 3 days ago which leads my trust off her. Now everything you look at reminds you of her. What had I done. She might want to spend all of her time with you too. About 1.5 hours later, we were lying in an area where you can relax and she turns to me and says “she’ll give us another chance” wanting to make sure it wasn’t out of pity I said “I only want to do this if it’s what you really want” she said yes and that she still loves me. I heard Ed Sheeran in my car driving to the train station. I want your advice about something… My girlfriend and I have been together for half a year. We also had a great time doing fun things together. More months passed and I got a birthday package. Or should I end everything with her completely, I really care about her she does same but is her boyfriend that is the issue. Please be honest in your advice because I really need it; as I have no friends that I can discuss this with. She even let me kissed her on the lips, and Hug her. and she took care of me without giving up. She attempt to tell her mother about me. Could anyone tell me how to respond in this situation? One of my ex-boyfriends started to become lazy halfway through our relationship, and I gave him a lot of time to fix his behavior (1 year) but nothing came of it in the end. No problems there. What do you suggest Kate should I be waiting or be straight ( tell her to give me answer). You may want to have an honest talk with her. Or maybe she did respond, and you had a great text conversation. She asked you to wait and then ended up with another man. It's, home, is pretty much where she feels would be a safe, comfortable place at that time, I believe. My girlfriend and I have been dating for three years. Me and my gf are togeather its been one year I love her way too much as she is beautiful people say that she is very pretty but i have never loved her for her appearance the person she is inside I love that girl I am available for her everytime when she needs me whenever she calls me up I pick up the phone immediately I take care of her smallest of things I am very expressive in our relationship she is not I will always say I miss you very fewr times she say ,she says she will call me but forget to call me I never did that I think I am way too much into her my world revolves around her that’s the problem she takes me for granted I want to make her realise my importance what should I do..? Everything was going fine, even when she moved to her school, she he visited me and we both had a great time. Another year passed by 1.8 years pass again I still want her back to me, I really love her every night and days I always thinks of her, never in my life I forget her. I told a week ago you’re going to see big changes in our relationship and life with another. And her feelings for me were developed a month ago. When someone says something like “aw I miss you!” you can always lie and say it back. We went to the counselor and she refused to talk abou anything other than a parental plan. So if you have received this message, how much do you miss me? However, she did keep stressing on a point that her ex is leaving in a few weeks which makes her confused as to what she wants from him, which made me think I kind of rushed into things and should have waited a little longer because she also didn’t tell me how she really felt about me. One fine day; the same beautiful woman resigned from the job as she got a better opportunity in some other firm. here it is also to be noted that her previous relationships just lasted at an average of 2 to 3 months which she admits its because she is strange. It keeps the relationship fresh. This means that she skipped the conversation for something that is not important… She does that a lot lately and I think that I have to do something about it, and quick! Just send me something, ANYTHING!! I communicate Again to her, again she let me courted again I courted her 2 months and counting . Think about what you want to say before you say it and be as respectful as possible, but never seem angry. Let me narrate a small true incident that happened to my friend few months back. Security escorted me out. Parents, especially fathers, are hard to crack! We have our son and are trying to figure out a plan together. A month after my birthday I told him that I had given him enough time and that I was going to break up with him. February 9, 2018 by Steve Horsmon 3 Comments. So we stopped talking up until a month ago. I just don’t know if I should be that good friend and be supportive to her until she finds someone else or succumbs to her disease or just slowly back away and drift away from her life which would be hard to do because I do love talking with her. 75% Upvoted. And yes, don’t forget to drink water, because you will get hick-ups too!”. I noticed a few months back that she started to become more distant with me, and to top it off, decided to move in with one of her girlfriends. She deactivated her account for a while then she started it again after a week and just blocked me thinking that i am not going to know about it. She misses you even if she’s not saying it. Answer: So, this is an interesting situation. You behave like a complete moron. Is this a new thing that she doesn’t want to visit you? I fought demons for 6 years losing a battle to addiction, and most of all… excuses. He might indeed miss you a lot, but if you are in the middle of your no contact period, be strong. There are a few ways that you can avoid coming on too strong. Leave the mother off your child alone and do something better and productive with your life. You need to ask her why she doesn’t want to visit you and be taken out? it was so hurtful that i had nightmares.) You are so fucking special, the most in this world. Now this is little tricky! Hey so i’ve known this girl for a few years and we have been together for 2.5 months…but just tonight i told her i dont feel comfortable with her hugging other dudes and she said she still is and she doesnt like feeling controlled…im worried, hello Kate am pretty down right now don’t really know what’s going on between me and my supposed gf. Don’t give it to him just yet. Definitely not to her boyfriend. 7 Things to NOT Do When She Says She Wants Space Here are 7 sure-fire ways to make her want even more space . Tell her it’s over and why you are breaking up with her. Don’t contact her, or “like” her pics or messages on social media. This id dur to the fact that we stay miles alart from eachother. I got a problem. Thank you for your time, Kate. Time and situations changes everything. Either an ex girlfriend or woman you were friends with turns up out of the blue and says..I Miss You. I researched all the possible fun things we could do while I was there (with or without money) and made a list which I send to him one month prior to my arrival. It was a mess. When you do this, you will both feel refreshed, recharged, and more than ready to see each other again. You can even play your favorite board games if you think that it will be fun. What do I do? Im doing everything i can to prove that i care i wanna talk to my girl all the time cz im afraid if i dont she will lose feelings or start to think im bussy with someone els i want her to messege me and miss me like i do with her love her so much and i always say id rather be to much than to little but im afraid constantly wanting to talk to her is pushing her away. He has all the information he needs to prove himself (like this website), and nothing has come of it. “I suppose you have been mistaken; I am not at the same page as you are!”, “Are you sure, you are messaging the right person?”, “I am so sorry, but I do not feel the same for you!”, “Maybe you misinterpreted me, but I don’t feel the same way as you!”, “Of course NOT! I really love my gf alot….we had a terrible fights and later broke up…well I come to realise that it was a big mistake and tried settling things with her only to realise that another guy came in the scene whiles I was gone….she claimed to love her and that the two were dating after our breakup but was able to settle down things….she told me she loves me and need time but she is always around this new guy ….What should I do…please try and reply me earlier I tried to reason with her but she was pretty adamant on the subject. I got mad and told her that only breaking up was the onky solution, then she cried and said she will never allow me to leave. If she doesn’t want to talk about the relationship stuff at all, I’m guessing she has kind of moved on and she may just keep you arms reach until she finds someone better. She even told me she loved me too so many times. My girl admitted to me that she had feelings for the guy but she was not ready to break up with to me. We both study, but after our classes are over we spend most of our time together in an online call (sometimes with webcam) when we are home. The answer is yes. Why is it that I always have to ask my gf multiple and multiple times to do something before she does it? We became official when we met in real life. You say she is honest? You could recall something you all did together or something you thought of during your time apart. It’s healthy to have a little time apart in a relationship. She keeps asking me if it’s ok and I keep saying it is but I really miss her and alot has happened to me the past few weeks that she hasn’t even realized or asked about. Also the other day this guy told me my gf sent him videos of her in the shower and saw part of certain things, like I trust my girlfriend but something inside me is telling me she did do this, how do I know or find out if she really did or not? She never showed up, we got back together. I always chat with my girlfriend but it takes a while to reply me,even if she is online. I’ve known this female friend for 20 years. We enjoyed dinner and again went out to play darts, its something we enjoy but sadly she wanted a few drinks also. If you don’t have any board games, check out our 21 questions game. but how can I treat a guy who really wanna snatch my gf. If your schedule and lifestyle has been keeping you apart from your girlfriend, a good way to respond when she says she misses you is by saying something like, “I really miss you too. Initially, she asked my cousin not to tell me that she had a boyfriend but I later found out myself. Nevertheless, I still fear now and then of losing her. So what happens when a guy says it to you and he’s clearly waiting for you to say it back, but you […] I’ve been a foolish boy not cherishing what he has, I’m done being a boy. Either she is with you or with the other guy but you need to know where you stand. She is deeply in love with me now, but wanted me to promise marrying her. I suspect she is charting another guy, so one night I picked her phone to find out whats going on, there I realized she is charting a guy about love. but lately i gave up. If you don’t miss him or her, use this to be clear about your desire to be left alone. 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